Showing posts with label Baby talk. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Baby talk. Show all posts

Thursday, September 25, 2014

How old are you again?!

The parenting guides and books tell parents to avoid baby talk and to teach children to have good problem resolution and negotiation skills so that they can properly handle conflict on their own. I  followed these tips with my own children and agree that it is important to instill these qualities in children. But is it always a good thing?

This week, while making my 5th cup of coffee, I was engaged in a heated discussion with my 5 year old about why she was not allowed to drink coffee. As she was explaining her point, I started to think to myself, "How is this child, that I gave birth to 5 years ago, speaking to me like she is an adult?". 

The discussion lasted almost an hour and during this time period she 1. used the word apparently correctly in a sentence 2. made a list of 7 reasons why she should be able to drink coffee and 3. was so invested in her argument that she made a conclusion highlighting her points at the end of her speech.

I was so shocked that she made such a good argument on her behalf that I gave in and allowed her to have "coffee". (mostly cream with just a little bit of coffee) She was very proud of herself but all I could do is think that I have created a monster or at least the next greatest defense attorney.

What do you think the downfall of teaching children how to argue in an intelligent manner at such a young age would be? Are we just raising miniature adults? What experiences have you had on this topic?

Now here is a video of my favorite little "attorney"....
 Video Credit: thebigtinonetwork